Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Origin of Standing Women

The Standing Women concept originated with a number of women associated with Ohio State University, although this is not a university project. Over the last year a number of us have felt that women everywhere we traveled are just weary about where the world is moving and, more importantly, that women everyone are ready to stand up and do something about it. We also know that many men are ready to stand up, also.

In the summer of 2006, we came across the origins of Mother's Day in the U.S. from Jean Shinoda Bolen's book Urgent Message from Mother: Gather the Women, Save the World.

Julia Ward Howe issued the original Mother's Day Proclamation in 1870:

"Arise, then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether our baptism be that of water or of tears!

Say firmly: 'We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience. We women of one country will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.'

From the bosom of the devastated earth a voice goes up with our own. It says 'Disarm, Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice.' Blood does not wipe our dishonor nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after their own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar, but of God.

In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality may be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace."

After reading this proclamation we began to feel that we needed to do something for this Mother's Day, May 13, 2007. What, however, we did not know.

Jean Shinoda Bolen spoke at Ohio State in October, 2006. During her visit, we shared our thoughts with her. After listening to us, she pulled a little book out of her case and shared it. It was the original version of The Great Silent Grandmother Gathering by Sharon Mehdi. After reading it, and talking to Jean, we knew this was what we had to do.

We had to call together the women of the world to stand together to save the world, to save our children.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

YOur story is amazingly like that of women in the greater Cleveland who, inspired by Jean Shinoda Bolen's book, Gather the Women, have been meeting monthly for about 9 months to pray/mediate for peace. It was wonderful to find your group and we plan to be in solidarity with you on Mother's Day. Believing in a world without violence is a big first step - may the spirit of life continue to be with us all and guide us.

Anonymous said...

With growning frustration and helplessness, I, like so many, have been left wondering what I can do to make a change in the thinking of other humans. This quiet statement IS something I can do; and, perhaps, this will give me the impetus to do more. Group involvement does not come naturally to me; therefore, unless other friends agree to join me, I will be in the plaza alone. However, I will at least ask for their participation.

Anonymous said...

I love your idea of standing together. If anyone wants to add extra depth of meaning--while standing please pray silently. The power of praying mothers standing together is endless.

Shari

The Speaker said...

Thank You.